If we were to look in dictionaries we can see there are several definitions of the word 'success', - yet it is one of those words which is incredibly difficult to actually define.
Success quite simply cannot be defined as it means different things to different people.
Traditionally one is seen to be successful if one has achieved a certain ‘status’; be it financial or fame based, however we all know that many rich and famous people have turned out to be very unhappy – some have even taken their own lives.
Could this mean, therefore, that such things as happiness, contentment, and satisfaction play a part in the definition of success?
After all, how can someone be living a successful life if they are unhappy inside?
Success, quite simply, is defined by each of us as an individual.
Broadly speaking I would say that to most people a successful life would contain one or more of the following concepts and words;
For me it means all of the above and for most people I think it will be a combination of them.
In order to feel fulfilled it is important that we are achieving some sort of goals - whether they be personal or professional or a combination of both.
Quite simply if we are not growing we are dying and to grow as a person we need to attain certain 'achievements' or 'goals' along the way. These can be very small things - in fact, sometimes it's the smallest successes which bring the most pleasure and feelings of satisfaction. It could be a child learning how to write his first word for instance... can you remember how proud you felt when you achieved this feat?
At certain stages of our lives, most people find themselves 'taking stock' as it were, and asking themselves deep questions such as, "what do I REALLY want out of my life", or "What is the purpose of my life?". Certainly, as a coach, this is a question I hear quite frequently, and it has become quite apparent that a sense of purpose is vital for us as human beings.
What happens if we are not feeling happy or successful with our lives? What can we do to turn things around? Can we help ourselves?.. The good news is that yes we can.
Here are just 3 things we can do to set us on the path of change, although there are very many more also.
These are just a few of the very many things you can do to increase your happiness and set you on the road to feeling successful. If you would like more strategies please feel free to reach out to me.
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Because success can and does mean so many different things to different people, a Success Coach or a High Performance Coach sees everyone as the individual which they are, and offers the tools and strategies to enable profound changes to be made when a client participates fully and openly.
Success Coaches do not need direct expertise in any particular area in which a client may work or play. They can work equally with Fortune 50 CEO’s, Olympic athletes, a painter and decorator or a mum of 6.
They do not offer advice to their clients, but rather hold the client as creative, resourceful and whole.
You already hold the answers within you – which the coach uncovers and enables by use of skillful questions, challenges, and support. A great coaching program will also provide the client with proven tools, structure and strategies which in themselves can be life changing when used diligently and consistently.
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There would be no point in us scheduling a conversation if I do not feel I can add value to you during the free session and beyond, should we choose to continue.
I look forward to hearing from you should you choose to apply, nd if not I hope I can continue to add value for you with my blog updates.